If You Want Better Relationships, Stop Being a People-Pleaser
People-pleasing is about manipulation and deception, and it’s not healthy in any relationship. Last year, I went on a ten-day work trip...
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A Better Way of Handling Relationship Problems
“Don’t air your dirty laundry in public.” When I was married to my first husband, a group of friends and I would sit down to lunch every...
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What Is Micro-Cheating? And Does It Really Count?
Cheating is much more than an act. The lying, deception, and manipulation that is involved, even to cover a small transgression, can...
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This Is the Quickest Way to Kill Your Loving Relationship
It may seem small, but it's not. “You never listen!” I found myself whisper-yelling at my husband in an IKEA parking lot so our daughter...
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How to Evaluate If Your Relationship Is Successful
According to science. My husband and I are what previous partners have called, “difficult.” My ex would tell you that I’m...
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How to Get Over Being Cheated On
You’re not the one who did it, but you’re going to have to be the one to get through it. When Daniel* began working with me, he was still...
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5 Toxic Relationship Habits People Think Are Healthy
Society isn’t always the best measure of what’s “healthy” in a relationship. I started most relationships in my early 20s with a dizzying...
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6 Types of Toxic People and How to Spot Them
“People inspire you, or they drain you — pick them wisely.” — Hans F. Hansen “You’re okay that she talks to you that way?” my friend...
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Was Your Relationship with Your Ex Really That Bad?
Possibly, but thinking it was actually helps you move on. When I think about being with my ex-husband, even in the most mundane of ways...
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5 Ways Texting Can Actually Improve Your Relationship
If you have proper boundaries around it, it can be a tool that can help, instead of hurt, your relationship. Before this pandemic, my...
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What Happens When Someone Gaslights You
Disbelieving your reality actually affects your brain. While I was married to my ex-husband, I couldn’t do basic math. When a server...
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When You Struggle Over Who Your Partner Dated in the Past
And what you can do about it. The man who is now my husband has a type, one he’s rarely strayed from, except, actually, for me. When we...
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How to Heal from the Trauma of Previous Relationships
Our past impacts our present every day, but it’s how we react to those reoccurrences that matters. It was a Thursday night. My partner...
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When Your Partner Cheats On You...Financially
It can seem worse than if they'd cheated with another person. When I was married to my ex-husband, every couple of months he would pull...
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4 Ways Your Limiting Beliefs Can Ruin Your Love Life
And how to counteract them When I was married to my ex-husband, I had an ongoing list of things I didn’t like about our relationship: He...
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5 Obvious Signs That Your Behaviors Are Toxic
Are you hurting your relationships? A truth I always had difficulty digesting was the fact that a toxic relationship requires two people....
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Are You Toxic? 10 Ways to Tell (And How to Stop)
If you find yourself wondering why some of your relationships have ended, it might be because you’re exhibiting some toxic behaviors. In...
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How to Approach Women
Different women want different things, but there are some things that would be universally helpful for you to do. I’d just pulled out my...
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Why It’s So Hard to Leave an Unhappy Relationship
It’s all about how much time, effort, and resources you’ve already invested. I bought a dress for work from a well-known designer brand....
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4 Ways to Make It Easier for You to Get a Girlfriend
Do these basics, and you’ll beat out the other guys. For some guys, relationships just happen. I have one Relationship Coaching client...
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How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love with You
5 ways to get today’s woman to lock it down Dating has changed. For centuries, women had to choose men that could financially support...
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Are You Love Avoidant? The Top 7 Signs You Are
It’s not that you don’t want to love or be loved; It’s just that you don’t want to be disappointed. After breaking up with a long-term...
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The 5 Sexiest Things Men Can Do for a Woman
…that aren’t “learn how to dance like Magic Mike.” Some days, I entirely believe my husband should win a “Sexiest Spouse of the Year”...
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Is She Flirting with You? How to Tell If She’s Interested.
Women can be much more subtle than men, so here are 6 signs to look for. “I have no idea if a woman’s flirting with me or not.” I can’t...
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